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Fall In Love … Again And Again And Again

Category: Loving Relationships

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One advantage of marriage is that, when you fall out of love with him or he falls out of love with you, it keeps you together until you fall in again. – Judith Viorst

There is always room for improvement, you know – it’s the biggest room in the house – Louise Liber.
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Life Hack #6 : Fall In Love … Again And Again And Again … (Relationships)

Falling in love just once is not enough.

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, with the same person – said Mignon McLaughlin.

As routine sets in and you get lost doing mundane activities day in – day out, it might seem that the spark that brought you together is slowly dimming out. However, most of times, it is not that you have fallen out of love or that the love that brought you together is no more.

Love expresses itself in a variety of forms. And it keeps changing it’s form of expression over and over through out our lives.

We often get so much used to one form of love, one expression of love that we turn blind eye towards all other forms and expressions even if they are right in front of our eyes. We are so set about the way love should be expressed, that we don’t even try to validate other expressions of love.

Because love is not expressed the way we think it should be expressed, doesn’t mean love is not there. Love IS, there is no question about that.

There are a lot of ways your partner shows his/her love, even if love is not literally expressed. Tune in to your partner’s expression of love and appreciate every small act of love. The more you appreciate, the more love you will find – because appreciation will help you tune in to the right frequency.

Your partner nags you everyday for your own good, that is love.

Your partner drowns in office work for hours and hours to bring home money for a better life for family, that is love.

You forget to call up you are going to be late and end up facing lot of fire because your partner got worried, that is love.

You come home and your partner keeps food ready for you, that is love.

You remain silent all the time, and your partner accepts that as ‘you’, that is love.

You chatter non stop about everything and anything, and your partner accepts that as ‘you’, that is love.

Love can be seen in all the small thoughtful acts your partner does, love can be heard in the constant advice that your partner gives, love can be felt in the strength of unconditional support and acceptance ….

Love is already there, where are you looking for it ?

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  1. J.D. Meier | December 12th, 2008 at 3:02 am

    Great photo and post!

    You reminded me of the ebb and flow of life and the waxing and waning as we cycle through our experiences.

    J.D. Meier´s last blog post..Lessons Learned from Peaceful Warrior

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  2. Cath Lawson | December 12th, 2008 at 10:37 am

    Hi Avani – this is so true and they are all great reminders of love. I had a bad first marriage and I must admit, I wondered if all marriages would be bad. But I’ve been with my current husband for four years and I’m pleased to say they’re not all bad at all.

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  3. Jannie | December 14th, 2008 at 2:14 pm

    I know that falling in love again feeling, came around again just lately. Not bad after 18.5 years. Not that we don’t have our “moments” lile everyone. But I am really blessed with a good guy.

    Jannie´s last blog post..A Biggie

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