Breaking Someone’s Sugar Habit - Gandhi’s Story
14 August 2008
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Be The Change You Want To See In This World - Mahatma Gandhi
During 1930’s, a young boy had become obsessed with eating sugar. His mother was very upset with this. But no matter how much she scolded him and tried to break his habit, he continued to satisfy his sweet tooth. Totally frustrated, she decided to take her son to see his idol - Mahatma Gandhi; perhaps her son would listen to him.
She walked miles, for hours under scorching sun to finally reach Gandhi’s ashram. There, she shared with Gandhi her predicament. -
“Bapu, my son eats too much sugar. It is not good for his health. Would you please advise him to stop eating it?”
Gandhi listened to the woman carefully, thought for a while and replied,
“Please come back after two weeks. I will talk to your son.”
The woman looked perplexed and wondered why had he not asked the boy to stop eating sugar right away. She took the boy by the hand and went home.
Two weeks later they revisited Gandhi. Gandhi looked directly at the boy and said,
“Boy, you should stop eating sugar. It is not good for your health.”
The boy nodded and promised he would not continue this habit any longer. The boy’s mother was puzzled. She turned to Gandhi and asked,
“Bapu, Why didn’t you tell him that two weeks ago when I brought him here to see you?”
Gandhi smiled,
“Mother, two weeks ago I was eating a lot of sugar myself.”
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That is a good one, read it laughed, then thought, one should really check themselves before they pass judgment or give advise. Thanks
-Tabs
Hi Avani - I love that Gandhi quote and this story made me laugh. Yet so many people give out advice that actually conflicts with what they do themselves, don’t they?
A short but SWEET story about integrity. I love it.
Be the change!
John
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What a lovely story!! You sure have a way of digging up stories of the past to share them. It’s nice to be reminded of these timeless classics. I may have heard this story before, but I laughed when I read it again here! Thanks!!
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Avani - Gandhi is an inspiration to me all my life. I’ve read about his life extensively. I really enjoyed this story of utmost honesty and integrity of a man I consider my idol.
Shilpan
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So, this is the opposite of “do as I say, not as I do”.
A fabulous story with an important message!
That’s good Avani!
I think the tricky part for most people is identifying when they are wanting someone else to stop doing something - when they themselves are doing it. For example, not reaching their potential, or having self-sabotaging behaviour.
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Funny!! That will make your think! I love that quote.
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haha I didn’t expect that ending.
Thanks for sharing it Avani
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I loved it Avani, I hadn’t heard it before. I guess it’s like saying that you should sweep your own doorstep before commenting on the cleanliness of other people’s doorsteps.
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I have heard this story, but told with slight variations. My father always told stories like this.
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Oh, good one. I didn’t see that punchline coming. And so many messages. A) being receptive to change based on someone else’s desire for change and b) only give out advice if your own yard doesn’t need cleaning up.
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Enlightening and seemingly simple….
Avani,
I love how this post talks about integrity without mentioning it once.
What a powerful way to convey a message a story is!
Where did you read this story? I’m curious to know more!
Thanks for this inspiring story!
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Avani -
The quote at the start goes along with this story perfectly. We have to be the change before we can ask others to change. How often do we not do that? At first blush, this seems like a funny story. But the deeper meaning is there - once we see it.
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@Luciano: My husband shared this story with me. He heard it in a Anthony Robbins interview he was listening to.
I didn’t see this punchline coming either! Now, that is definitely illustrating the phrase “Walk your talk.”
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@Avani: interesting that you should mention Anthony Robbins… I’ve been listening to quite a few of his videos lately.
The story you hi-lighted was not only funny but it emphasized a very important point! Tabs & Cath captured that well in their comments
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Hi Avani,
That was a great story. I’m still laughing.
I heard this story before but this time I realized what a GREAT personality Gandhi ji was.
That’s a funny one. Imagine how many fewer blog posts there would be if bloggers behaved like Ghandi.
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Wonderful story. I must say I have a sweet tooth myself. I need to cut it out.
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Cool Story, I am truly amazed… We need to keep in mind of this before we advise others.. That’s Y we call him MAHATMA (The Great Soul)
Very nice, correct yourself, then correct others, i need to follow this myself.
I’ve always really enjoyed this story - it really gets to the heart of the matter in a simple, practical, and concise manner. I have a much shorter version on my website that I originally read in Passionate Presence by Catherine Ingram.
Hi,
i do not know if this story really happened or not, and we can say it doesn’t matter much real or not, but i would like to inform anyway. This story is in fact a true story but main actor is not Gandhi.
in muslim religion this is a long told story. and main actor is Al-Imam al-A’zam lived 699-767.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abu_Hanifa_an-Nu%E2%80%98man
And here is the same story in Turkish:
http://www.haznevi.net/icerikoku.aspx?KID=5653&BID=65
laughed after reading it, but its true we should think twice before passing any comment over others..
nice post.
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