9 June 2008 133 views No Comment Print This Post  Email This Post

An interesting thought I heard in a Relationship Seminar I had gone to - that how we limit Love, Relationships, Friendship around us with definitions. Some things in life don’t have definitions. And we by giving them ours, are limiting our experiences, our lives to our limited thoughts, notions and ideas about them. How often we think that only x or y could mean that it’s love or friendship. Why don’t we let relationships be, grow at their own pace in any unique form that they wish to. Why do we need to create a mental picture in our mind about how relationships should be. Why do we need everything around us to fit into the mould we set for it. And anything which doesn’t confirm to these standards set by us are wrong, not ok.

Because people don’t love us the way we expect them to love us, it doesn’t mean that they don’t love us. People say it’s unfortunate to not to love/be loved. Even more unfortunate ones are those who are loved but they don’t accept it; They don’t see it, recognise it because it didn’t come the way they expected it to come. Love - comes in so many different forms in our lives. By expression, by constant advice, by being there, by unconditional support and sometimes by silence. Let’s not miss out on love thats already there in our lives.